"Female in male body" is how the concept of transgendered was explained to me, in the 1990s, and it's how I've thought of myself since then. I don't argue with people who have a different understanding - that's just what makes sense to me.

I've thought about transitioning, but not much. I don't have dysphoria so bad that I can't be happy as I am. I dress like most of my soft butch lesbian friends and pronouns don't matter to me. Unless I tell people I'm trans, they wouldn't know, which is fine. It's none of their business anyway.

I try to never miss a chance to say there's no wrong way to be trans.