I'm a trans woman and I'm not changing anything. I would prefer to have been born XX instead of XY, but I don't have dysphoria. I don't care about pronouns. I'm attracted to women, but have chosen not to be in a relationship for eight years. If I was XX, I'd be a soft butch.

I'm in the process of coming out, but I have the luxury of choosing who I want to be out to. I'm not out to my parents. I am out to the seminary I'll be starting next year.

There's no wrong way to be trans.