I'm trans lesbian. I would like to have a traditionally female body, but I don't experience dysphoria - I am not motivated to go through transition. I'm not concerned about pronouns, which I see as linguistic conveniences that don't reflect who I am. I'm not out with everyone - but women at work and in other spaces recognize that I'm not like other "male" coworkers.

I have a trans life that works for me. That's all I need. I'm sure you'll find what works for you. There's no wrong way to be trans.